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When
we are on the wrong path, we don't need motivation, what we need is EDUCATION!
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Solutions by Anca |
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BThe new millenium has brought massive economic shifts for many people, creating a need for them to re-define their lives. People in transition often want to address deeper convictions about what they want out of life, they want more awareness and self-improvement, thereby releasing more power for individual success. Transformational coaching brings together and hilights all the possibilities that will help mold and shape the Visioneering Process for you as you create a plan and execute its daily, weekly, monthly and yearly details. Transformation at the deepest levels, gives full access to your potential for living a balanced, fulfilling and accomplished life.
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Transitions In a recent North-American survey people were asked to list the most disruptive things in their lives and rank them according to their difficulty to handle. It was seen that the highest proportion of difficulties involved transitions both personally and professionally. This can be seen in the increasing pace of career-change, personal relocation, raising our children, struggling/failing relationships, ect... One could say that the North-American culture is based upon constant transition. Being in transition is a frequent
and natural, but often confusing state; not simply because of the situational
difficulties that transitions present, but also because we underestimate
the potential that such difficulties have to disrupt our lives. Big events
such as divorce, losing a job, and other obviously painful changes are
easy to spot and, given the proper attention, even prepare for. Others,
like marriage, sudden success, or moving to your dream house get little
or no attention, because we see them as "good events" and do
not expect them to present us with difficulties. You see, we expect to
be distressed at times of illness and misfortune and find ourselves to
be somewhat prepared, but we're often blindsided by the challenges we
face during recovery or times of prosperity. |
The Transition Process It seems somewhat simple to say, but every ending truly is a new beginning. The essence of the transition process lies in this statement... What most people overlook in this statement is that most transitions are not smooth progressions from point A to point B. There is a disruption, a confusion, often a sadness, sometimes an elation, but in every case a period of adjustment to the positive and negative changes that have occured. It is unfortunate that most neglect to properly grieve for the lost job, lost relationship, the lost community when one moves, we know and recognize there has been a change, but we are reluctant to call it grief and thus not always able to deal with the issues properly. Putting processes together to permit adjustment periods, you can work through the transition process to internally cope better with the change, giving up the old and embracing the new in a healthy manner. Only when this is done may the truly new beginning be made. |