and further complicate
When we are on the wrong path, we don't need motivation, what we need is EDUCATION!

 

Solutions by Anca


BThe new millenium has brought massive economic shifts for many people, creating a need for them to re-define their lives. People in transition often want to address deeper convictions about what they want out of life, they want more awareness and self-improvement, thereby releasing more power for individual success.

Transformational coaching brings together and hilights all the possibilities that will help mold and shape the Visioneering Process for you as you create a plan and execute its daily, weekly, monthly and yearly details.

Transformation at the deepest levels, gives full access to your potential for living a balanced, fulfilling and accomplished life.

 

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Transitions
The need for change

In a recent North-American survey people were asked to list the most disruptive things in their lives and rank them according to their difficulty to handle. It was seen that the highest proportion of difficulties involved transitions both personally and professionally. This can be seen in the increasing pace of career-change, personal relocation, raising our children, struggling/failing relationships, ect... One could say that the North-American culture is based upon constant transition.

Being in transition is a frequent and natural, but often confusing state; not simply because of the situational difficulties that transitions present, but also because we underestimate the potential that such difficulties have to disrupt our lives. Big events such as divorce, losing a job, and other obviously painful changes are easy to spot and, given the proper attention, even prepare for. Others, like marriage, sudden success, or moving to your dream house get little or no attention, because we see them as "good events" and do not expect them to present us with difficulties. You see, we expect to be distressed at times of illness and misfortune and find ourselves to be somewhat prepared, but we're often blindsided by the challenges we face during recovery or times of prosperity.

As human beings we yearn for stability but are constantly in one form or another of transition; and unless we properly educate and train ourselves in how to handle all transitions from beginning to end, we are destined for a life of turbulence and disruption. Accordingly, the security of stability that we seek for our lives, will forever elude us.

The Transition Process

It seems somewhat simple to say, but every ending truly is a new beginning.

The essence of the transition process lies in this statement...

What most people overlook in this statement is that most transitions are not smooth progressions from point A to point B.

There is a disruption, a confusion, often a sadness, sometimes an elation, but in every case a period of adjustment to the positive and negative changes that have occured.

It is unfortunate that most neglect to properly grieve for the lost job, lost relationship, the lost community when one moves, we know and recognize there has been a change, but we are reluctant to call it grief and thus not always able to deal with the issues properly.

Putting processes together to permit adjustment periods, you can work through the transition process to internally cope better with the change, giving up the old and embracing the new in a healthy manner.

Only when this is done may the truly new beginning be made.